There Will Always Be a Reason Why You Meet People

"Either you need them to change your life or you are the one who will change theirs." — Lessons Learned in Life

I have always had an intuition or instinct about people when I first meet them, sensing whether they will play an important part in my life, or I in theirs, somewhere down the road. This feeling has proven true time and again, as many have indeed played significant roles in my life, and I in theirs.

Equally important is the negative or "icky" feeling about certain people whom I choose not to allow into my life. These emotions can be valuable when meeting new people. In my book and seminars, I emphasize "Knowing Who You Are." One key reason for this is that our lives can be drastically altered by allowing someone in, either positively or negatively. Maya Angelou’s quote, "When people show you who they are, believe them," resonates deeply with me. People will always reveal their true selves. It is our job to take them at their word or actions and accept the person they show us, rather than making excuses and overlooking red flags.

Let's talk about "women's intuition" for a moment. Is a woman’s gut feeling always, right? The answer is both yes and no. Our thoughts and emotions may be correct or completely wrong. It's crucial to assess our experiences, identify when we are right about a person or situation, and learn to listen to that small voice or loud scream inside. People will always show you who they are. Believe them.